More Link Love

I should say self love because I am linking to a post that praises me and C. Forgive the touch of narcissism, but C and I have worked damn hard to be where we are in our relationship, and it is an on-going challenge. One we face with pleasure, for pleasure, but a challenge nonetheless. Being poly, swinging, scene-ing, all the things we do or try to do, can work with a strong foundation of love and trust. So, I think our new friends Deliciously Naughty and her Sexyhusband will be just fine!

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Welcome to my Blogroll: Another Omnivore

I haven’t added anything to my Blogroll in a while. Frankly, I have so many blogs to read it is hard to find time to introduce new ones. But I just had to add Notes of an Omnivore, to my reading list and to my Blogroll. Hot, pansexual, beautifully-written posts to warm this pervert’s nether regions. He doesn’t post very often, but is worth the wait. This very naughty note had me wiggling in my seat.

Published in: on February 24, 2008 at 12:52 pm  Comments (1)  
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Sugasm #119

This Week’s Picks

The Rule of Blowjobs for Women

“Tease. Spend time. Don’t just start out like a Hoover on overdrive.”

Commercialising Romance or “I bought you this card now where’s my blowjob?”

“If it takes a specific date for your partner to show you he loves you then what do you have?”


“She smiled up at him, from her vantage point between his knees, and continued what she’d been doing.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself


Editor’s Choice

Hazards of the Biz

Erotic Writing and Experiences

Catalina loves Fantasies (about Friends)

Clit Notes


Erin with a capital oooaaaaahhh

I saw and I came!

I will take Pancakes with a side of Camel Toe!

No Special Occasion

Phantom Fire

A Promise Kept

Quickie in men’s room


The Reunion (Part I)


Wake me up with your tongue a Friday night bedtime story

Sex Advice

The 3 Best Positions for MFM Threesomes

I Didn’t Use a Condom

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews

The Bedpost Interview: Lux Alptraum

Cop Seduced By Hot Tranny & Forced To Suck Cock

Njoy fun wand

Ode to my hitachi magic wand

Screaming Orgasm from Mr Vacuum

Review: Working Sex, Sex Workers Write About a Changing Industry

Stoya Bot HotMovies Interview

Texas Make Up For Lost Time With FREE Sex Toys!

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

Feminist Carnival #53

Of Lust, Loss, Film Stars & Humor (Or, Get Me On Vince’s Bus)

Polyamory is SCARY!

Sex Work

Pictures from Last Night: Playing Dress Up

BDSM & Fetish

Dark Hearts…A BDSM Fantasy

The Empty Gas Tank – my first spanking video!

Gabriel, and self realization

I Love

Losing my virginity…with canes WF #4

She likes to feel pretty.

Shoe Slut

Smutty Talk


Sex Humor

How To Tell If That Domme You’re Emailing Is Really A Man

How Do You Explain It?

Unusual And Tasteless Gifts For Valentine’s Day

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio

Black lips suck cock the best

Fetish Model January Seraph Is Tied To A Table Top

The Heart knows it’s presence, Unbound


Kristyna – Funny Shave

Kyla Cole

Met Art: Lisa, Sharon & Jenya; Monika; Valleria; Vika

My reading on YouTube

Nude by Didier Carre

The Red HNT

Satine Phoenix Is A Feminine Feline Fantasy In This Corset And Collar

Published in: on February 21, 2008 at 1:08 am  Leave a Comment  
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Links and Stuff

I started this blog to talk smutty sex exclusively. With a fat positive angle. And lots of enthusiasm. But now I find myself with barely any time to have sex let alone write about it, with major changes happening in my non-blog life. I hate to leave The Gold Slut Standard sitting quiet for so long. So here are few links and very brief thoughts.

I really enjoyed meeting Deliciously Naughty and her Sexyhusband in person a few weeks ago. If you haven’t read her Fat can be sexy post, check it out. One my favorite discussions of one of my favorite subjects.

I love socializing with other sex bloggers. We are so lucky in New Y0rk to have a real community, thanks entirely to Blog Mommy and goddess Viviane. I caught the tail end of one of Viviane’s blogger gatherings last weekend. It was so good to surface from the bottomless depths of my other work and connect with this community.

I find Kate Harding’s BMI Project both fascinating and full of hot pictures of cute big girls. The best kind of social commentary.

Published in: on November 23, 2007 at 1:53 am  Comments (4)  

Sugasm #90

Sugasm #90

Mon 30th Jul, 07

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #91? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

Fat can be sexy

“I understand what it’s like to be surrounded by images that reinforce that skinny is the ONLY way to achieve sexiness.”

Are Women Visual Critters, Too?

“With the invention of the internet, however, I think that it gets even more complicated.”

Marriage, Monogamy, and All that Jazz

“My chosen lifestyle and relationship type wasn’t making any sense to the other women.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

S Magazine

Editor’s Choice

Supply and Demand

More Sugasm

Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

Am I Missing Anything, Really?

Catalina loves the Museu de l’ Erotica

Cheating Men

“How much confession can one read before becoming uncomfortably numb?”

I’m a Woman Man: Episode 2 – Faces

Lulu Forever

Playground positions

So many rabbits…

BDSM & Fetish

Car Wheels on a Gravel Road

Dirty words

Fetish Film – English Punishment Series (Spanking, Caning)

The Flesh Remembers

Fun with a subby boy

Luring the Guardian Angel

The Percentage Game

Sukebe Otaku: Happy Tears, Revisited

Teeth and claws and cock and cunt

Thunder: Service With A Smile

The Violent Kiss

Wake up bitch…

Worshipping post-erior – leaving my mark

You suck!

Sex News & Reviews

Lelo Nea Mini Vibrator Review

Sex In The Virtual World – Computer Games

Sex Humor

How To Get His Attention

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio

Amy of 24.7 in the Kitchen

Drum Solo (video)

Half-Nekkid Exhibitionist


Sex Work

Busy Princess Play Day

Erotic Writing and Experiences

Distracted by Her shoes


I Want

No reservations, part 1

An old friend


Sleeping Beauty…

Supply and Demand

That Kiss


We were in heat

Amy of 24/7 courtesy of Kitchen Girls.

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I’ve been Fleshbot-ted again! Thank you Jefferson. Let me know if there is anything I can do to show my gratitude. <wiggles forefinger>

Published in: on July 28, 2007 at 1:29 pm  Leave a Comment  

Sugar, I Call My Baby…

Sugasm #85


Sugasm #85

Mon 25th Jun, 07

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them.

This Week’s Picks

A Little Fun at Home (…)

“She surprised herself when her fingers found the actual ice cube melting inside her cunt.”

The Anniversary Present (…)

“But I knew that nothing would be more appropriate to the new path we’ve chosen than a threesome with another man on the night celebrating our wedding so many years ago.”

Girl’s Night In (…)

“Some of us are more conservative than one would have thought, and some of us, it appears from dropped jaws round the table, are less.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

7 Simple Ways to Future-proof Your Blog (…)

Editor’s Choice

My Exam (…)

More Sugasm

Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday (

Erotic Writing and Experiences

The Dragonfly (…)

Greedy Eyes (…)

I awoke… (…)

I remember entering the hotel room (… )

It should have been a dream then! (…)

Music & Cock (…)

Party Games Part 2 (…)

Petals….. (…)

The Pirate Captain (…)

Razor Stubble (…)

So good I could almost come (…)

Through the Crack (…)

Yesterday (…)

Sex & Politics

Gay Marriage Survives (…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio

Beautiful Agony Video (…)

Betcee May – Nude in Nature (…)

Filthy Food (…)

Sasha Cohen (…)

Wild – Pictorial Presentation (…)

Sex Work

Charlie and the Chocolate Covered Cock (…)

When A Client Dies-Part 1 (…)

BDSM & Fetish

The Back Room (…)

The Control of a Submissive (…)

Happy HNT – Summertime spanking (…)

His kiss (…)

How Was Your Weekend? (…)

I want to hurt you (…)

Painslut (…)

“The Real Reason I Have Long Hair,” smut from the archives (…)

Scenes From My Bedroom – Part 4: Giving up control (…)

Two vingnettes from two scenes (…)

Yanking My Chain (…)

Sex News & Reviews

Coming back with v.2.0 (…)

Featured Fetish Film – Toys For Twats (Nun Fetish, Old, Sacrilege, Yikes) (…)

Fern wood tonight (…)

Half-Nekkid and Playing the Field (…)

How To Make 3 Girls Have An Orgasm (…)

Introducing the Nude Photography of Eva’s Garden (…)

MSNBC and Green Sex Toys (…)

Welcome to Teeny Phone Sex! (…)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

Daddy Day (…)

Lacking Sexuality (…)

Love and Crush: Confessions (…)

Lunch (…)

More keyword analysis (…)

Slutdom Redefined (…)

Without your input (…)

Picture of Catalina courtesy of Catalina Loves Her Collar.

Published in: on June 25, 2007 at 9:05 pm  Leave a Comment  

Sugasm #82

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them.

This Week’s Picks:

Back Surgery and Sex-How do you connect sexually when you can’t connect physically? (…)

“There was no sex. It wasn’t possible.”

A Hard Day’s Play – part 4 (…)

“But all the while, there was the awareness of the runes.”

Unrequited (…)

“The man in question is a friend and sometime fuck-buddy.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Google Search: &imgtype=face (…)

Editor’s Choice

Coffee (…)

More Sugasm

Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday (

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

The Friday Night Bookstore Crowd (…)

A hundred blowjobs in one night? (…)

Poly & Death (…)

Polyamory from a Lesbian Point of View (…)

“When he was just a word.” (…)

BDSM & Fetish

Goldslut on Top (…)

Featured Fetish – Good Old Fashioned Bondage – YAY! (…)

Flogger Session (…)

Game Type B (…)

Happiness Is A Rosy Bottom (…)

Ownership, sharing and monogamy (…)

Pained need (…)

The power of the Anakin’s paddle (…)

What a weekend it has been… (…)

What vanilla guys can do when they try (…)

Sex Humor

At seventeen (…)

Isn’t That The Thing That Killed The Crocodile Hunter? (…)

Sex Work

Bad Call Breakdown (…)

Found in Translation (…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio

Christine Vinson Nude (…)

Danae (Met Models) (…)

Feeders (Tiffany Lynn) (…)

Friday’s Here…Time For Beer!!!!! (…)

Giving Head (video) (…)

Hegre Art’s Latest Nude Photo Shoots (…)

Nella and Simone (…)

Oily (…)

Summer Cummings – Red and Black Boots (video) (…)

Sex News & Reviews

Pocket Rocket Plus Review (…)

Porn Star’s Claims Merit Trooper’s Suspension (…)

Erotic Writing and Experiences

30-again (…)

Casual (…)

Charlie and Bess (…)

The Cock Slayer (…)

First Trip To The Nude Beach (…)

On Living in the Moment… (…)

Put your hands on me…. fantasy friday (…)

A saucy tale (…)

Some Very Lovable Neighbors (4) (…)

Up Against The Wall… (…)

Welcome To School…. (…)

When you need some time to play basketball (…)

Published in: on June 5, 2007 at 10:30 pm  Comments (1)  

Goldslut’s First Sugasm

Sugasm #78   Mon 7th May, 07

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #78? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

Coming into my own: How I learned to masturbate (…)

“Eventually I could no longer help myself, and I stealthily slipped my hand under my panties.”

A Hard Day’s Play – part 3 (…)

“Together, they create a new sensation, and I savour being able to literally taste their coupling.”

Sexist Sexy Hotel Kits (…)

“Kind of sexist? How about completely, amazingly, disgustingly sexist.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Dancers for Democracy (…)

Editor’s Choice

On my 31st birthday, I gave my boyfriend two blowjobs… (…)

More Sugasm

Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday (

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

Dancing ’round the giant phallus (…)

I’m often asked, “Gracie, does size really matter?” (…)

I Want To Show Off…. Tastefully! (…)

Meat Puppet? (…)

Naked Polemics (…)

Sex While Sick = Interesting Results (…)

Sex Work

Armed and Talking (…)

Photo Session – part one (…)

Sex & Politics

Sexual Liberation? (…)

Why Is Kink Taboo? Why Is SEX Taboo? (…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio

Audio: Celebrating Masturbation Month (…)

I Shot Myself (…)

Jenna and her sexy friend (…)

New Lingerie (…)

BDSM & Fetish

Al And Lynn Again?!!?!?!? (…)

Doors, to be opened (…)

Face fucking, continued (…)

A girl in her cage~ (…)

Half-Nekkid Sloppy Seconds (…)

Happy HNT – Sexy Vancouver Canucks fantasy (…)

Hasratda (…)

The Lady is a Tramp (…)

Pavlov’s pussy~ (…)

Right Round, Baby (…)

Used (…)

Who’s your daddy? (…)

Women on Top (…)

Sex News & Reviews

Caring For Your Monkey (…)

May is Masturbation Month! (…)

Who’s your daddy? (…)

Sex & Humor

Man-Eating Bush (…)

Erotic Writing and Experiences

Cracks in the ceiling (…)

Empowering Carpet Burn (…)

I Want Candy (…)

The Jalepeno-Flavored Whore (…)

A Moment’s Notice (…)

More stoned sex (…)

Never Doubt a Marine: The Weekend, Part Two (…)

A night stand (…)

Restaurant Voyeur (…)

She called (…)

Tell Me (…)

Telling Stories (…)

Published in: on May 8, 2007 at 7:33 pm  Leave a Comment